Growing grey part 2

It’s been eight months and I’m not going to lie, I’m not enjoying the grey transition and have wondering why I’m doing it!

From here
To here

On a good day I quite like the streaks and silver highlights and enjoy the low maintenance and money saving aspect and on a bad day I feel very grey as I simultaneously go lighter and darker at the same time. The grey is concentrated at the front and my hair is so much darker in the back and underneath than I remember.

Perhaps it’s time for a new style as it’s time to cut some more of the old colour off the bottom.

Shall I persevere to silver?

Istanbul

With the year of change now in its fifth month with many changes so far, we escaped to Istanbul for a much needed weekend.

Goleta Tower

It was the hottest weekend in London and perhaps the coldest and wettest in Istanbul, the irony but we managed to see it all. From the Hagia Sophia to the Topkapi Palace, the Grand Bazaar to the Basilica Cistern. Fantastic food and all topped off with a boat ride along the Bosphorus.

The Blue Mosque
Inside the blue mosque

We took the metro and got ripped off, we took a couple of taxis and got ripped off and we took a couple more taxis and didn’t get ripped off. We learned a few lessons.

The Hagia Sophia
Inside the Basilica Cistern
Topkapi Palace
The Bosphorus at sunset

It was good to get away.

Raw dog

Agnes has gone raw, that is, she’s now eating raw dog food.

It started with her drinking lots of water and having a few accidents in the house. Very out of character.

After a trip to the vet, we discovered she had urinary crystals and would have to go on a special vet food for urinary issues potentially for the rest of her life.

I didn’t like the sound of it (or the cost) and it seemed depressing to eat sachets of plastic-looking meat each day.

I started reading up about the causes of urinary crystals and it seemed processed food was part of the problem and so over the past few weeks, Agnes has transitioned from processed to raw food and is enjoying duck (or other birds and fish) with superfoods. Her water intake seems normal and she hasn’t had any accidents.

She’s lost some weight so I’m keeping an eye on that, has had fleas and her poo is very hard due to the bone content of the food.

It may be too much information but as Agnes is only eight and I’m hoping she lives till at least sixteen, it’s worth trying to find a solution.

I hope this is it!

The big freeze

It’s been a cold couple of weeks with lows of -4 and highs of 3. Our flat is not well insulated so it’s quite bracing (good for circulation) but not exactly cosy.

I’ve taken to wearing two of most things and am adept at removing and donning layers in line with the cold, central heating and menopausal sweating.

Jumper on, jumper off. Two jumpers on, one off. Thermal leggings and smartwool socks are great until the sweating kicks in and then it’s rapid removal until two minutes later when it’s all back on again!

I’ve been cycling to work this week and despite my new fair isle (feral) hat and gloves, I’m sure my thumbs were on the cusp of frostbite yesterday so it’s a good thing my cycle to work is only twenty minutes!

Still, the park is frozen solid which means no mud and Agnes is avoiding her daily paw wash so she’s winning. She’s also covered in lovely thick fur so winning on all fronts.

It’s warming up this weekend apparently with rain forecast so perhaps the end is in sight and before long we’ll be complaining it’s too hot!

On a positive note it was almost light at 5pm yesterday so as always, a light on the horizon of winter!

Dog stalking

Our local park is a brilliant community space utilised by all types including a plethora of dog walkers, ourselves included.

Now, with dog walking comes politics. There was a time when I knew a large number of dog walkers and would say “good morning” to one and all. Gradually the crowd changed as people moved away, perhaps it was covid or perhaps the dogs died but either way, it was less social.

With dog parks there are inevitable tussles as not all dogs get along and unlike people, they don’t fake it.

Agnes has a dislike of brown Cockapoos and the other morning, she made her opinion known by going after a brown Cockapoo who had rubbed her the wrong way.

Who knows what starts these things, a wrong look, a weird smell but regardless, Agnes saw red (or brown) and was right off like a bat out of hell after her brown nemesis.

Hysteria followed as an American woman started screaming and, holding her dog high in the air, was spinning round like a whirling dervish. Agnes was jumping like a dog possessed and I was desperately trying to catch her while asking the woman to keep still.

Eventually I caught Agnes and the woman turned on me, rude and abusive.

I walked away chalking it up as a dog altercation… until the following morning when I encountered the same woman and the same dog.

Another round of abuse ensued as she claimed to have been bitten (she hadn’t) and I owed her an apology. Now normally I would have apologised immediately but, like Agnes, I had been rubbed the wrong way after a volley of abuse so there was no way I was apologising. I told her to stop harassing me and that was that.

And so to this week where I took Agnes to the park at 7:30am to avoid a confrontation but incredibly I spotted the woman turning around and walking in a different direction when she saw me.

Agnes and I had won, or had we? We’re still skulking around the park on high alert for a hysterical woman and her nasty brown cockapoo which isn’t the most relaxing start to the day.

Dog park politics.

January Blues

It’s never a good sign when the weather says it’s three degrees but feels like minus five!

Needless to say the first week back at work was hard, London was cold and people were angry.

Jet lag meant dropping off at 7:30pm and waking up without fail at 3:30am. Very tedious. But it’s temporary and it was worth it!

We’ve enjoyed looking back at our photos from Australia, so clean, so much empty space, such happy people, such crazy animals!

In contrast to London where everyone seems to be complaining about everything all the time. Crazy people!

Still, the first signs of spring are emerging in the garden, the first green spikes of daffodils and buds on the magnolia and after this week, it looks a little warmer.

A very mellow New Year

We got the ferry back to the Mornington Peninsula after a very enjoyable few days along the Great Ocean Road.

We stopped for a little koala spotting seeing two hidden high in the trees (along with a bus load of tourists) before continuing on to Queenscliff.

I’d been concerned it would be busy with it being New Year’s Eve but no concerns as we were soon across the bay and disembarking on the other side.

The blue green tones of Port Phillip Bay

And we set off to spend evening with one of my oldest friends in Shoreham in the most beautiful country setting.

The perfect treehouse
Mature gum trees
Lily pond
The drive

Black Cow, Launceston

It was a sleepy Saturday afternoon in small town Launceston and literally no one was around.

We discovered (via recommendation) the Black Cow restaurant and despite it being 5pm and completely empty, we made a reservation, for 5:30!

Front door

We went back fashionably late at 5:45pm and the restaurant was almost full! Launceston is not a late night party night!

We enjoyed a very nice meal and were finished by 7pm.

Time for an early night it would seem.